Yesterday we hosted eleven year old kids from two local schools. During one of the exercises I observed something interesting. A group of five boys who were friends were given a girl to be their captain as they were supposed to build a tower, using only eight pieces of paper and a string of sellotape. One of the boys told me that the group does not want the girl as their captain so they were not participating. I tried to convince them to participate. They sulked and resentfully distracted her. I watched as she kept on working on the tower while rejected by those who were supposed to be her team mates. When the time was about to end they discouraged her and said 'let us give up we have already lost this competition'. Still she kept on working. I had to intervene when they physically destroyed her structure for the third time and told them to leave her alone as they were deliberately sabotaging her. She kept on working even as you could see hurt on her face. Her energy was not spent on convincing them to like and accept her. Her focus was on the project. Her tower won silver and the group claimed that honor. I knew better and I marveled at her quiet strength as the judges commented on the simplicity of the design. This happen in life. Please be like that eleven year old girl. Focus on the project even when they reject you, not help you and try to sabotage you. Even if you are breaking inside, JUST KEEP GOING and FOCUS ON SUCCESSFULLY COMPLETING THE PROJECT.
Growing up in Mbekweni I got used to being associated with the Pan Africanist Congress (PAC/Poqo) when visiting other townships. This is because Paarl has been viewed as a PAC stronghold since the 1962 Paarl uprising that was led by that organisation. The history of the PAC struggles can not be told without mentioning Paarl 1962. That was when a mass uprising consisting of hundreds of men took place. They marched in the morning of November 22 from Mbekweni and Langabuya to town with the intent of attacking the police station and prison. The Late Minister of Justice in the ANC led government Dullar Omar recalled this event when accepting an award for Human Rights in 2004. Omar who, in 1963, was one of the lawyers who were to defend the men recalled that: “ The PAC was particularly active in Paarl. Suddenly hardly without any notice the so-called Paarl riots (the Poqo uprising) exploded on the South African scene. These poor migrant workers had had enough. They marched through
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